Sending money to my parents makes me 'sad' because they don't stop mentioning it for days, sometimes weeks on end in extreme gratitude.
I ALWAYS wish I could do more.
What kinda parents do you guys have?
This doesn’t just apply to relationships. It applies to friends, family, even your parents.
Start giving your parents a monthly allowance and stop later because you’re broke, they’ll resent you. That gateman you give money to every day, the moment you stop, he’ll resent you too.
A gift is not supposed to be steady or predictable. Once it becomes expected, it stops being a gift and becomes an obligation.
Don’t start what you can’t sustain. Even good intentions become harmful in excess.