This is a victim mentality.
You are in full control of your life.
This kind of thinking is an excuse to settle for mediocrity.
Focus on what you can control, instead of what you can’t.
The hardest pill to swallow: you have no power, no control over your destiny, no agency. Unelected bureaucrats control your fate. You don't know them. You will never know them, or know what it's like to be at their level. You are a slave. And there is nothing you can do about it.