As a mental performance coach & dad: Here are 5 must-know mental performance rules for parents of young athletes
1. Don’t specialize before 12 – Let them play multiple sports to build skills, confidence, and avoid burnout.
2. Cap training at their age – 10-year-old = under 10 hours/week. Too much training fries the body and the mind.
3. Rest is training – Take 3 months off one sport yearly. Sleep > supplements. Recovery builds grit.
4. Your stress is their stress – Skip sideline coaching. It causes undo choices and decisions for your kids. After games: hug, feed, listen—no feedback.
5. Let them fail & play for fun – Resilience comes from flops, not perfection. Sports should add to life, not run it.
That’s it. Keep it simple, keep them hungry, keep the love alive. 🧠💪