said it before, will probably keep saying it forever: lesbianism is a choice of sentiment to some people. it’s all about vibes and perceived aesthetics and not related to the actual lives lesbians lead or the unique experience of lesbianism. it’s just another form of cooption.
when you realize youre a lesbian, you also realize that everyone else just uses your label for shits and giggles and then thats when you enter the 8th circle of hell for the rest of your life