i’m gonna make it abundantly clear again: abolish ice, free palestine, free sudan, free iran, save afghanistan’s women, save the congo. end oppression, injustice, and genocide everywhere. links below to donate to/learn about these causes.
“so you do the noble thing and open up the door, if loving me means letting go and wishing me the best,
then i guess
i wish, i wish, i wish you loved me less.”
ppl see lesbianism as a moral benchmark, a feminist statement, a kink to spice up the bedroom, a set of colors to decorate your bio, a threat to modern women, a choice made to diss men and bisexuals, a phase, lesbianism is anything and everything but a legitimate sexuality
i hope the next person to bring up dykebreaking nothing but the most evil things in the world. this lesbophobic ass bullshit has had way too much talk and attempted justifications for weeks now. all of you have got to go.
said it before, will probably keep saying it forever: lesbianism is a choice of sentiment to some people. it’s all about vibes and perceived aesthetics and not related to the actual lives lesbians lead or the unique experience of lesbianism. it’s just another form of cooption.
when you realize youre a lesbian, you also realize that everyone else just uses your label for shits and giggles and then thats when you enter the 8th circle of hell for the rest of your life
it’s deeply frustrating because i know so many lesbians who have had to dissolve so much shame and stereotype surrounding the word to become prideful in it, only to see it treated as an unimportant adjective and not a real identity.
“you kissed my neck, made our paths intersect 'til the two lines formed a circle.
and i melt with you,
your red and my blue
now i see the world in purple.”
skymel fic where mel starts working late more and more often due to council pressure and sky starts to worry maybe mel is bothered by her. so sky becomes a little distant thinking that’s what mel wants, but mel misses her coming to see her in her office on busy nights.
it’s perfectly okay to say. the issue as i see it is two things. one is that sa and incest have been watered down into sexual categories alone as opposed to the real horror in them. it makes discussing experiences/writing them subservient to gratification of the audience first—
it’s unfair to survivors and deeply problematic, and also why media treats sa as blasé as they please. no one wants to sit with the reality or the consequences. they want the conversation ended and the discomfort of suffering ended. they don’t wish to acknowledge it wholly.
i think, in conversations of fandom, this often occurs in two extremes. one is the way sa is treated as a porn category, and the other is people who shut down any conversation of it outside of the before issue. both silence victims. i wish you healing and a better space, anon.
this demand from people to make lesbians comfortable with the fetishized violence against our identity under the premise of kink is sincerely getting to a very concerning point. these people feed off of the idea of making lesbians feel unsafe and degrading us.
this is amazing, your girlfriend pretends
to be a lesbian so you can pretend to rape her? are we serious? and you are telling this to a lesbian? you both are sick on the fucking head and should be internated
there is this inherent need to subjugate lesbians as objects to be broken and an idea to fetishize. lesbians aren’t humans with emotions, us and our identity are props to be staged that they can then grow violent towards for any discomfort with our dehumanization.
anyway i love being walking lesbian stereotype at the end of the day. yes i hate men. yes i’m a feminist. yes i get angry. yes i seldom shave. yes i deeply love women. i love my life even more for it.