Lover, Father, Trauma Therapist. Out now: THE SEX TALK YOU NEVER GOT @Nelsonbooks. I @CrossFit, but not like that.
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22 Mar 2024
In the wake of the #metoo movement, I sat with the rest of the world troubled by the amount of harm done in the name of male sexuality. From outright sexual violence to the almost universal stories of women enduring daily catcalls.
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Politics cleave in half so many virtues meant to be whole
Feb 18
Christian lovers of justice for the vulnerable: might there be room for unborn children?
Christian lovers of life for the unborn: might there be room for other vulnerable people losing their lives to preventable death?
Thankful Jesus offers love & life to all. #Life&Justice
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Feb 6
We all saw what we saw and it was rotten racism to its core. But I guess "intern" is what our president has decided to call the racism in his heart.
You can be a person of moral courage and root out your sins. Or you can give them nicknames.
We all get to choose.
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Feb 6
They are trying to sleep with the church. Always trying to seduce God’s bride to cheat on Him. God is a jealous God. He will not stand for this.
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Feb 5
There is no such thing as toxic empathy. It's any oxymoron, like dry rain or warm snow. Just like you can't have too much love. If its too much, its become something else. You can't have too much empathy. If it's toxic, it's something else, most often codependency or enmeshment.
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Jan 21
“His written remarks.” Nice sleight of hand.
They won’t admit that he misspoke even when it happens live on camera.
If the administration will lie about something like this, think about all the other things they’re lying about.
Jan 21
No he didn’t, Libby. His written remarks referred to Greenland as a “piece of ice” because that’s what it is.
You’re the only one mixing anything up here.
Community note
During the course of President Trump's speech at Davos26 on several occasions he said "Iceland" when it would be factually incorrect and make no sense whereas saying "Greenland" would have made sense and been factually correct.
youtube.com/watch?v=aj387T…
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Jan 20
The empire is trying to sleep with the church. And the church has been all too willing sleep around.
“But you walked away from your first love—why? What’s going on with you, anyway? Do you have any idea how far you’ve fallen?” Rev 2:4,5
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Jan 7
It's a cult serving one man's unbelievably fragile ego. He cannot accept he lost an election.
Jan 6
words fail at the brazenness of the dishonesty in the White House's new January 6 timeline: whitehouse.gov/j6/
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18 Nov 2025
What do these guys think romantic love is built on?
If you're not willing to be moved by a woman when she shines in her truest sense, then how do you ever have romance? Awe is what runs romance.
RIP, the lover in men.
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Sam Jolman retweeted
18 Nov 2025
The victims have been threatened. The men they were forced to be with are powerful and wealthy. They can sue them into oblivion and make their lives even more of a hell. Epstein hired people to follow the girls he abused, and to harass members of their families. He told them "I know where you live." He told them he would destroy them. I would hope that the public understands that these women have children -- they are afraid not only for themselves, but for their families and loved ones.
Anyone else think it’s weird Epstein victims keep saying they’re going to name names but they never name names?
They just keep having press conferences and making videos?
Something is off.
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14 Nov 2025
This is really, really dark evil stuff.
13 Nov 2025
Megyn Kelly: "I know somebody very close to this case…Jeffrey Epstein, in this person's view, was not a pedophile…He was into the barely legal type, like he liked 15 year old girls…He wasn't into like 8 year olds…There's a difference between a 15 year old and a 5 year old."
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14 Nov 2025
The last thing humanity needs is more deep relationships with AIs, even if the AIs are simulating people we loved before they died. This is sick, and this is our lonely future unless we start saying no to it now.
13 Nov 2025
I think this is genuinely evil.
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23 Oct 2025
This is false and a dangerous mistreatment of women. It's inherently a sex addict mindset.
Porn addiction is not the result of "unmet sexual desire." It's a pattern of self soothing and sexual entitlement rooted in a divided self. Recovery is squarely a man's responsibility.
20 Oct 2025
Wives are God's main weapon against porn addiction in men and need to be reminded of the dignity of that role.
A thriving sex life is a tremendous spiritual help to a husband.
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23 Oct 2025
I should say: Recovery is squarely an addicts responsibility, regardless of gender or drug of choice.
But in this case, he is speaking of sex addicted men in marriage.
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10 Sep 2025
This. We are giving ourselves over to murderous rage.
10 Sep 2025
In the last few years we've seen:
- The plot to kidnap Gretchen Whitmer
- The Storming of the Capitol and pipe bombs left at the RNC and DNC
- The break-in to kidnap Nancy Pelosi and the brutal on Paul Pelosi
- Multiple assassination attempts against Trump
- The assassination of Minnesota House Speaker Melissa Hortman and her husband and the shooting of on State Senator John Hoffman and his wife
- Luigi Mangione's assassination of Brian Thompson
- The assassination of Charlie Kirk
Political violence is contagious. It is spreading. It is not confined to one side or belief system. It should terrify us all.
The foundation of a free society is the ability to participate in it without fear of violence. Political violence is always an attack against us all. You have to be so blind not to see that.
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10 Sep 2025
Mercy... It's too much...
We interrupt the shooting at a college to bring you news of a shooting at a high school.
This is America.
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10 Sep 2025
Amen. May God be with Charlie Kirk's family. What have we become?
10 Sep 2025
Violence begets violence.
An eye for an eye is never satisfied.
Blessed are the peacemakers.
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9 Sep 2025
I work with victims of sexual abuse. This matches my professional experience on the stats and the story. And I don't get it either.
9 Sep 2025
The thing that gets me about the Epstein story is that while most pedophilia is perpetrated by family members and trusted individuals known to the family, this Epstein story *is* the Eyes Wide Shut Evil Elite Cabal stuff MAGA and Q people have always talked about. It's Epstein and Trump and billionaires and politicians and well known "elites", and now that it's here with evidence like this birthday book, they don't want to have anything to do with it because Donald Trump is involved. It is horrific and it's shameful.
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4 Aug 2025
Trauma informed counseling is exactly the process of helping people come to terms with "What happened to you is not your fault." It's also inviting them into the responsibility for their wounds and pain. Therapy is a wonderful place to mature as a person and grow closer to God.
1 Aug 2025
Trauma-informed counseling is destroying people. What happened to you is not your fault, but what you feel, think, and do today, is. Repent of everything in u that is contrary to God, run to Jesus, enjoy Him & live His morality from your heart. God can heal you. Will u trust Him?
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17 Jul 2025
All of this.
13 Jul 2025
No, we aren't moving on from the Epstein Files. We aren't moving on from trafficking and child rape. And no, @realDonaldTrump, we aren't buying the idea that the files never existed, or were faked by Obama, or whatever new story you come up with.
We see you.
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6 Jul 2025
I can't imagine trying to know God and believe that including women makes it worse. I earned my counseling degree at @rtsorlando and the women in my program changed my life.
4 Jul 2025
When I was in seminary, the dynamic noticeably changed when a woman was in the class. I have no issue with women being theologically competent, but I don't think seminary is the route for this. Seminary should be for men preparing to preach the Word. Period.
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