Girls from defence backgrounds are often raised to be confident, outspoken, expressive, and fearless about sharing their thoughts. When girls like us step into schools, colleges, or social circles where people come from very different mindsets, we often get labeled in different ways. Some people appreciate it, especially those who are open minded, while others find reasons to judge.
Today I watched Twisha Sharma ka wedding video that someone shared. The way she spoke...so confident, expressive, and unapologetically herself....felt very familiar. People often talk about horoscope matching, family matching, culture, traditions, religion, and social compatibility. What is rarely said openly is that mindset compatibility matters too aur anjane me ham ye hi Milne ki baat karte bhi hain kyonki Every community, background, and family carries its own values and way of thinking. When one personz view is imposed on another, it can become difficult for a mature and independent minded jatak to truly be themselves.
I don't know how to put it perfectly into words, but it feels sad. She seemed like such a lovely girl. 💔