If you’re really lucky in life, you’ve either come across Anne Durso or you’ve got someone like Anne in your life.
That’s why this is a tough one to put into words.
Over the last 20 years…odds are you’ve heard me say Anne’s name. Probably a lot.
She’s been a second mom to me. The closest of confidants. The kindest of neighbors. The most trusted of friends. And the most reliable of pillars.
She’s guided me through the most critical life events that I’m not sure I could have navigated without her. She’s been there for me every step of the way. Literally & figuratively (we walked our dogs together probably 4 or 5 days a week, for a good 15 years or so). And the talks would transfer to the patio chairs and last for hours.
It’s so hard to say goodbye to someone like Anne—-which we had to do recently. It’s harder to truly realize what that means.
However, another wise woman, my wife—explained to me that it only hurts so much because I was lucky enough to care so deeply for someone as special as Anne in my life for that long.That I got to enjoy being her ‘bestest’ friend as she liked to say, and vice versa.
And that means, the sorrow should easily be outweighed by gratitude. Gratitude for all those long walks & talks, popsicles on the porch, trading errands and favors and looking out for each other for all those years.
I could write volumes about Anne so that those of you who hadn’t met her could understand how difficult her passing is, or how wonderful this world is now because of her kindness, generosity, social work and contagious joy.
The accolades and emotions are just too numerous.
I’ll just say I’ve never met anyone quite like Anne Durso–and I’m insanely lucky that I did.
And if you have an Anne in your life, hug her, tell her that you love her, create and then soak up all the memories that you can. She and I did that. Especially over the last few years. And I’m so relieved and thankful that we did.
So here’s to Anne Durso…one of the best people I have ever known.