or use that as a loophole to still depict aroace chars as allo for shipping reasons (even when they're canonically sex-repulsed), when like, even for aroaces that do engage in rom/sex relationships the dynamic is NOT EVEN A BIT like with allo pairings
there are aromantic & asexual people who do engage in romantic/sexual relationships, but i dislike how allos as of late only put a focus on them to the point that every time the rest of us who lack attraction/interest in sex, etc. are represented, we're viewed as "stereotypes."