One of the issues with the show is that so many things the antagonists do the protagonists also do
Stella hires an assassin to kill Stolas?
Well imp are assassins
Stella is physically abusive?
So is Loona
So itβs hard to quantify whatβs actually bad behavior
Stella defenders will put cheating in a loveless arranged marriage as a worse crime than ordering a hitman to assassinate your husband that you hate cuz he embarrassed you one time