Some people will never realize how exhausting it is to constantly pour from your own experience and knowledge at scale for free. And if anyone feels this, imagine how it felt in 2022 when UGC suddenly went mainstream to the average person.
At that point, I’d already spent years as a Creative Director in DTC a UGC creator figuring this out in real time BEFORE there were roadmaps, mentors, courses, or even a mature paid media landscape. A lot of those learning curves took YEARS.
People also forget… a majority of the coaches, mentors, and educational resources in UGC today simply did not exist back then. The influx of DMs, emails, texts, and requests for help became genuinely unfathomable almost overnight for me. I don’t think the average creator or coach today can fully comprehend what that period felt like.
That’s a huge reason I’ve had to become intentional about boundaries and checking notifications. My mom always reminds me that even good news is still an emotional toll on the body. Constant access to you, even when it’s positive, can become overwhelming (especially as an AuDHD-er).
And honestly, it’s hard not to feel resentment sometimes when you’ve poured so much into helping people, only to watch some weaponize that knowledge purely for selfish personal gain.
But despite all of that, being able to help people shortcut the process now without completely burning myself out is still a win. You can care deeply about helping people while also protecting your energy, time, and expertise. 🥹