What people don't seem to understand is that it's very much so an inversion of scrutiny, where instead of consistent standards, the observers own sensitivities when viewed through their own emotional or ideological worldviews, take precedent rather than that being the actual intent.
It's the same line of thinking that drew people to compare Tolkien's orcs to black people.
“UUGH games always have such brutal death scenes for exclusively FEMALE characters”
Meanwhile Isaac Clarke every 5 seconds: