I made this comment the other day and I want to share it because its something thats actually really important to me and I've just had an example of it working in real time.
Just had the landlords gardener maintenence guy come round. Because my husband isnt here and its just me he has all these extra questions and persists with the questions even though I said I know nothing about anything, all questions can be directed to the letting agent or my husband as I havent read any agreements or arranged anything or do I know where anything is. I already knew he was going to play silly buggers simply from the tiny text exchange. Hes giving the hard stares while excessively talking to me. I look right back at him. Its only when I start looking at him right in his left eye that he breaks the stare and looks away. He couldn't handle it. Its a good way to stop anyone thinking they have the upper hand and taking the piss.
Ive done this many times in the past with men when I feel a weirdness from them and I want them to back off.
I read an article decades ago that explained how the right side of the face is the side we display socially. Human beings have an unwritten agreement to always look each other in the right eye, we carry our social expressions on the right side of our faces. The left side shows how we really feel, whether that’s happy, sad, despondent, whatever the emotion is. That’s why they say the left eye is the window to the soul.
A person who provides a stark example of this is Bill Gates, because you can clearly see on the right side of his face that he has this sickly sweet, compassionate smile that he wants to display to the world, but on his left side, he has a contemptuous sneer.
It apparently happens for all of us, having asymmetrical expressions in themselves dont mean someone is a bad person but just that there is incongruence between what that person wants to express socially and how they feel internally.
I remember the article went further and explained how, if you break the agreement and look at someone in their left eye, it makes them feel strangely exposed, they will apparently treat you nicer and be more honest with you.