Laaaaaa laaa la la wait till I get my money right 📌

First she decides what haircut and facial hair best suits him, then she changes his clothes, then she tackles small details- watch, wallet, jewelry, shoes etc. Then she buys you some shit like niacinamide serum

i can't wait to do life with the man I'll be madly in love with 😩. Random date nights. Traveling. Matching airport outfits. Holidays. Anniversaries. Laughing, growing & experiencing new places together. Just us creating sweet moments and unforgettable memories together 🥺✈️

I don’t care for nonchalance. Point me to the lovers, the yearners, the poets ❤️ the men who send long thoughtful paragraphs and the women who send them right back. Give me the triple texters, the gifters, the ones who aren’t afraid to show their love openly. I want the kind of love that reflects God’s heart.

Drop a “I’m building something” if you’re a woman working on your goals right now, business, career, school, anything. Let’s connect.

I traumatised my Uber driver tonight and it was so worth it. 😂😂😂 Dude kept talking about how it's OK and in man's nature to cheat and women should be OK with it. He went on to say that if a women marries a cheating man she should just accept it and not be bothered by it. He even said the woman should buy condoms for her husband when I mentioned STD risks. Immediately, I told him that a woman who's comfortable with you cheating is taking her own lick back outside. He continues in his delusion with "oh, if your woman dey cheat, you go know" I said "Upee! Na him men dey find out at forty say their papa no be their real papa?" I and my sister started telling him how married women were disturbing our male friends and these married women's husbands were also cheating. I continued with my goal of traumatising him by telling him a story of a father in law who went to do DNA test for his grandson saying he doesn't look like his family meanwhile it was his own son who wasn't his. 😂😂 By this time he has gotten real quiet and wasn't really confident with his "if my woman dey cheat I go find out" I knew I already got to him. He started saying if a woman cheats she leaves, I said "she leaves na!" He said "where she wan go?" I said "that question no be for the women of my generation" Then I told him someone I know is divorcing her husband despite having 8 kids for him. Women nowadays don't care and the society is erasing any shame you people used to trap women in marriages they don't want. He went silent. The next time he spoke, he changed the topic. I am sure he'll be thinking if his wife is only OK with him cheating because she's cheating back 😂😂

have gratitude for all the little things as you wait for all the bigger things to fall into place, everything unfolds in perfect timing. 🤍

If your family member or friend is grieving feed them. Bring them food or cook for them... and sit with them silently🤐 let them be, never make it content 🙏🏿💜

I don’t ask to be spoiled, but if my presence doesn’t inspire you to treat me like a princess, we won’t go much further.

LIFE TIP: Invest in your appearance. The world responds to the energy you project.

Romance is absolutely non-negotiable for me. I don’t want a roommate, I want a lover.

Please get addicted to thinking everything will always work out for you.

STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.

Growing up in South Africa, coding always felt like it belonged to someone else's language. So I built my own. Introducing CMT-IsiZulu — write Python code in isiZulu South African can now write codes in their home language 🇿🇦 Sikhona. We exist. drive.google.com/file/d/1arL…

Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you,he moves different on his own. Life's too short to be waiting for someone to act right!

No one was born with a manual book of how to live on earth so each day is all about trying. You fail today no problem try again tomorrow. The moment you overcome the fear of failure you will be brave enough to knock on every door of opportunities and one day you will find yours👑

Although I'm ok with being single, i can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. The constant crave of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. Nobody communicates anymore. Real is Rare.

As someone who doesn’t want to be a Mom in this lifetime. I’m happy I got to be an aunt, a sister, someone's daughter, a best friend, a solid girlfriend, a cool ass coworker and so many more things and that's good enough for me.❤️

GIRL please get addicted to thinking everything will always work out for you.