I think we men need to talk more about sexual control amongst ourselves
There are habits a man must keep up if they want to be able to control their penile
- Don't watch porn. stop if you do. Seek help to stop or man up and just stop it if you're man enough
- Don't keep friends who always talk about sex, women, or materialism. there is a connect with high materialism & sexual anyhowness
- Quit or don't do drugs and alcohol. Drugs and alcohol will make you not think of reasonable things most times
- Read social rules and understand them. Rape is not just penetration. read & understand what it means
- Begin to put yourself in the shoes of women. If a stronger man rapes you from your anus, will you be happy? If a stronger man oppresses you, will you like it? See women's rape & oppression from that light too.
- Learn restrain. Restrain helps you build muscle for great habits. Stay sometimes and go vegan for a month. Stay sometimes and don't eat red meat for a month, etc etc. Or pick something you like and quit it for a month
- If you gamble, your ability to keep your emotions under check is in trouble. it may build you into a bad person.
Just remember, who you are is a cumulative.
Nobody is Just a good person.
A good person is a cumulative of many, so many good habits.
he's an international student from naij that came to the uk to do his master's. he lured a minor to his house, locked her in the toilet, and raped her three times. someone I spent so much time with, studied with, and even worked alongside.
bro me and this guy literally spent so much time together, i can't believe he's capable of doing something that sinister
this guy was literally the most quiet guy in the class, he barely spoke to any girl in class