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@myhandle's Navigation By Moonlight explored the feminine art of yin - setting up opportunities. Extend that logic to its natural counterpart - the art of yang is acting on opportunities - and you get a noble vision of what it means to be a man, that goes beyond just dating
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The universe has spoken
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Harry is going to Vibecamp and Vibechella! retweeted
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You sing because karaoke is fun
I sing to hone the Bene Gesserit Voice
We are not the same
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An example of what relational awareness gets you
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that's part of it
i think a lot about rhythm too, the way some people seem effortlessly synchronized and in phase. you amplify each other's ability to inhabit a space together
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Harry is going to Vibecamp and Vibechella! retweeted
Jun 14
Being relationally-aware is where it’s at nowadays :)
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Poets and comedians are the supreme noticers of the world; dancers, musicians and improvisers are the supreme noticers of the present moment
Jun 10
Poets and comedians are the supreme noticers
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me n who ☯️
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From the presentation "Becoming a Romantic" at LessOnline
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Having a felt-sense of "doing it right" if very useful to much more than just romantic relationships!
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Come to Vibecamp!
today i spent 2.5 hours talking to someone in a park. it felt like 15 min.
conversation is the highest order bit of human connection.
shared interests, proximity, activities, & history helps but most of the things we associate with connection are downstream of two people being genuinely interested in what’s happening inside each other’s heads.
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Outside of these circles, The Thing is most commonly known by partner dancers, improv performers, and music jammers
I want to be around people who can do The Thing. Gendlin Focussing is The Thing. Meditation is The Thing. Circling is close to The Thing. Non-violent communication is The Thing. Rapture/Ecstasy is The Thing. Jude Law and Robert Downey Jr do The Thing in this clip:
youtu.be/zNgenV82wLY?si=iHx6…
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Gen Z reinvented the third person camera from first principles
I’m old enough to remember when “POV” meant “point of view”, as in, the photo or video is taken from the point of view being named.
But we’re so post-literate that “POV” is just the thing you write before naming the subject of your video now I guess, for reasons lost to time.
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The semantics of POV are surprisingly complex! You can have a camera that shows the character externally while still identifying with that character's perspective
youtu.be/LTaQnuQY9fY
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This is actually a perfect analogy because the painting would not be possible without the canvas creating space for it. The brush and the canvas need each other ☯️
Jun 4
A painting is made by the brush not by the canvas
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Harry is going to Vibecamp and Vibechella! retweeted
Jun 5
literally do it anyway who cares if nobody wants to read it. What if you write 5 essays and all you get is clarification of your own thoughts and a personal distillation of what’s good and what isn’t? Where’s the loss
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The tricky thing is, this wouldn't be a problem if you're willing to *ask* for attention - but someone who's like this also probably finds it difficult to *ask* for attention
Jun 2
I can understand on a logical level that it’s possible for people to be hurt by my ignoring them, but only if I consciously think about it. There’s no automatic activation. So all it takes for me to forget is to be distracted, and it slips my mind entirely that people CAN miss me
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Harry is going to Vibecamp and Vibechella! retweeted
Jun 3
the best way to look like you care is to actually care
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You can learn the principles of good style and just... not follow them. Some are impractical, but as it turns out, a lot of good style *is* just dressing for what is well suited for your context.
Fashion isn't only about suffering for style points. It can be for your comfort, too
hard pill to swallow: having truly impeccable style requires sacrifices i’m not willing to make
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There's two different ways to parse this tweet
Focus on *people who* focus on what they want to see more of (you)
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Hey vibecamp friends! I made a relational arts cabin for anyone interested in partner dance, improv theater, singing/music jamming, circling, etc.
Reply to the discord thread or DM me to join. Cabin submissions are due June 5th!
I might be giving private dance lessons 👀
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