people spend so much effort and pain policing sexual norms on themselves and others. of course they're gonna get mad if you show them that's all for naught because you can live a happy little life while flouting every single of these norms with a giggle
everyone’s like “you can’t give advice about meeting someone, you just got lucky met your husband at an orgy. that’s just totally random and not something anyone else can do!”
you guys. i literally put on a sexy outfit and went to a party centered around one of my interests, and then met a person who shares my interests and personality type. this is the most traditional way to meet a spouse. it could have been bowling, or trivia, or tap dancing.
i’m sorry to be the one to say it, but you’re all ngmi.