gay, problem solver. solver of gay problems (they)

Joined August 2016
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uh oh thinking about a phd again yes/no
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pros, for me: • i like learning • gender neutral honorific cons, for me: • having obligations doesn’t sit well with me
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comms for a trans nonprofit
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I wish clocking tea were a career option
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skill issue
18 Jan 2024
I used my phone 4 hours a day — now I suffer from chronic pain and can’t sleep trib.al/Ajkp01o
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I was (not so secretly) quite pleased my mom wouldn’t let me go to these because it got me out of playing wingman for all my straight girl friends when they wanted to make out with Jared or Ian or Mike.
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I was just trying to take a nice picture with her
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that’s what they think. Surprise! TSA PreCheck is $85 for 5 years. No body scanner and you can keep your shoes/belt on and computer in your bag. It is a racket and security theater but when I’m rich I want to do PreCheck grants because it is life changing for trans travelers.
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when everything sucks at least we still have stick qtip in ear
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The town we’re moving to has a current population of 16. Our family will be persons 17-20.
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thought i could cancel therapy this week but just remembered the special hell that was high school “swim gym” as a queer trans person with sensory struggles. classic monday night stuff.

ALT Tiny white puppy shaking their head with “do not want” written in white caps on the right

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when you love your nonbinary friend Soup
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forget about impostor syndrome; this syndrome is gonna be the death of me
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looking to talk to queer/trans folks who moved from suburbia to a more rural community. we’re moving to a farm in the middle of nowhere (on purpose) and i’d like to hear what that culture shift is like for people.
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then i am way above average because my life plan has withstood 37 years of direct questioning from my mother and here we are.
11 Jan 2024
I reference this Onion headline at least once a week at this point
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that’s why this eunuch went to law school
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does anyone who takes NYSHIP do this
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I took Unmasking Autism by @drdevonprice out of the library in Jan 2023. I JUST FINISHED IT. This is the first book I have read as an adult because of processing stuff; it took me a year but I am so grateful to have read it, and neurospicy or not, it’s a profoundly valuable read.
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And now I will return my year-overdue library book.
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