One aspect of historical life that most misunderstand is the degree to which things could just... happen, without any possibility of averting them.
We live in an administrative state, with Lovecraftian levels of bureaucracy dedicated to dealing with every possible occurrence. This hasn't always been the case.
For example, take it back a few centuries and people could just... walk into your village with swords and say you're now their slave. What are you going to do, call the police? The men of the village *are* the police, and if they're overpowered there's no recourse.
For women, being taken as a war bride was a non-zero possibility in life. That was just a possibility you had to live with.
Even more recently (18th, 19th centuries) sailors could be "recruited" by press gangs. Kidnapped, often from a tavern or similar, and forcibly interred in the Navy. That's just your life now. Got too drunk and woke up on the HMS Victory as a deckhand.
There are dozens more examples. This sort of randomness is a more primordial way of life, one that we've done our best to excise from modern society.
But in reality, it is still the base form of life - we just do our best to work around it, to make such actions undesirable in the long run.
However, this is a double-edged sword. While you're unlikely to be pressed into military service or taken as plunder... alienation from such risks creates a false sense of control. A sort of false belief that because these things are disincentivized, they can't happen.
After a lifetime exposed to such an environment, you begin to believe that everything in your life is under your control, that nothing can happen without your approval. This manifests as anxiety, neuroticism, fear of loss of control.
At the same time, it disincentivizes action in the moment; everything should be planned long-term, played prudently and slowly.
Because everything becomes a long-term game, we build an unfamiliarity with intense, life-changing situations. Emergencies, acts of violence. People freeze up, think "this can't be happening"... "this isn't allowed to happen."
Very dangerous, and distinctly modern, way of thinking.