concerned with matters of the spirit

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A new essay on eloquence or the problem of speaking well. I talk about sontag, rosalia, ballet, my friends, beauty, god. A final entry in this year’s series on self & consciousness. open.substack.com/pub/foliei…
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I love to be in the world It interests me
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20 years of real housewives. I graduated high school. wasted my degree. Made several poor financial decisions. Developed an alcoholism. Got evicted. And vicki gunvalson watched over me the entire time
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Trying to communicate with an individual who uses the term ‘girls’ girl’ unironically is exactly what amy adams was experiencing in arrival
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That slow sidewalk prowl you do when you’re waiting for the bus to open its doors. Like a lioness
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All of my text messages include ellipses…..To unsettle and disturb the textee…….What nefarious thought lies in the unsaid…….
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The life of a ‘gets drugs for free’ individual may seem enviable… Aspirational even. But if you were to put a price on every breakup they’ve therapised, every punishing conversation they have survived……no number of lines would suffice
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New developments at my autistic straight guy enclosure
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The litmus test of true & deep friendship is not whether someone shows up in times of crisis……really, it’s who’s there during times of total mid. To survive work and tiredness and monotony and still choose your company
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Of course, he who has a peanut allergy garners my sympathy. But he will never garner my respect. You were not meant for this earth and you are on borrowed time
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What they do not tell you is that Queening Out with the gymrat is often more spiritually enriching. because he is more conscious & less defensive of his neuroses
The gay men don’t queen out anymore. Gym culture has ruined faggotry. Like girl you’re a TWINK not a gym bro. Where’s the faggotry? Where’s the queens?
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Shoegaze is wonderful in theory. & almost always completely underwhelming in practice
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The british use of ‘arse’ is morally reprehensible to me. There is light and goodness in ‘ass’. The devil rides on the wings of the R
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The move from simple, pure-hearted marijuana & liquor country to a land of powders will drive the young ingenue to madness
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A wave of such potent self-loathing washed over me just now. To even understand what these words mean. I should be torn limb from limb. I can’t even drive a car
criminal ivy wolk placement. i don’t even think she herself would agree
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A trace of the wig will haunt the weights, and vice versa. the homosexual’s yin/yang
The tendency among conventionally attractive male celebrities, upon reaching a certain level of fame, to trade their natural masculine appeal for low-effort androgynous flourishes (pearls, polka dots, trailing fabrics) almost never to their aesthetic benefit, must really be studied.
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Bro tonight is about to be 27 accidental screenshots of my lockscreen
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for a couple of years post-covid, new zealand experienced a wave of bath salts being sold as mdma, a phenomenon from which lorde has never quite recovered,
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There is no way to insert oneself in a group of men Doing Bits without feeling like if amy schumer guested on cumtown
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Whenever one gets complimented in wellington It is an auckland insult. ‘Love your coat’ = looks thrifted as fuck. ‘Your hair is amazing’ = nonbinary split ends.
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Auckland is the greatest love of my life. Know this
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