I've seen this constantly on both tumblr and twitter, it genuinely seems like people only accept aro/ace folk if they can Still be in romantic/sexual relationships- they fight for the nuance of it being a spectrum, but only on the end they like. 😭
I’m kinda sick of allos spreading the “aro/ace people can still be in romantic/sexual relationships!” thing cause I never hear anyone supporting those who aren’t and don’t want to be? And I’m saying this as an asexual in a relationship with an aromantic person. 😭