The difference is:
A) that's not Peter
B) Peter in ASM has been Spider-Man for at LEAST ten to fifteen years and is an adult, so he shouldn't act like a teenager that just started out
and C) that's not Peter.
If this happened in ASM, Spider-Man fans would cry and whine that Peter is a manchild and constantly apologizes for something that isn't his fault
But if it's USM then it's okay
(we never saw Felicia even acknowledging the fact she led Richard into a trap nearly killing him)