‘I would never let him treat me like that’ …is the FASTEST way to push your abused friend away forever. 😔 👋 I’m Claudia — certified domestic violence expert, former law enforcement officer, and survivor — and today I’m calling out a top phrase that makes victims go silent. When you say: •  “If that were me, I’d be gone in 2 seconds” •  “I’d call the cops / fight back / burn his stuff” •  “I would NEVER put up with that” …you shift the spotlight onto YOU and your imaginary strength, while making her feel weak, stupid, or “not strong enough” for not doing what YOU would do. Every relationship has different threats, finances, kids, trauma bonds, and terror levels. She’s surviving the way she knows how. Unless she specifically asks “What would you do?” — keep it to yourself. Ask instead: “What do you need from me right now?” Give me a 🤙🏼 in the comments if you’re done centering yourself in her trauma. 👇 Save this if you want to be the friend who actually helps her escape. Tomorrow’s mistake will make your jaw drop… see you then. 💙 #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SupportSurvivors #HowToHelp #CoerciveControl #TrueFriend

🚨 The ONE question you should NEVER ask a friend in an abusive relationship… (it makes everything worse) 😔 👋 I’m Claudia — certified domestic violence expert, former law enforcement officer, and survivor — and this week I’m exposing the biggest mistakes good friends make when trying to help. First mistake? Asking “Why?” “Why don’t you just leave?” “Why do you stay?” “Why do you put up with that?” Those questions unintentionally reinforce what the abuser has already drilled into her: that she’s stupid, worthless, and can’t trust her own judgment. Instead, say: “How can I best support you right now?” That validates her reality and reminds her she’s not alone. If you’ve ever asked a “why” question… this is your sign to stop. Throw a  ❤️ in the comments if you’re committing to better support today 👇 Save this series so you never accidentally hurt a friend in need. Tomorrow’s mistake is one almost EVERYONE makes… don’t miss it. 💙 #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SupportSurvivors #CoerciveControl #HowToHelp #AbuseRecovery

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The flooding in #CentralTexas is breaking my heart and directly impacting friends and family we love. For many, Camp Mystic has been an important part of their lives, and now some face the unthinkable—losing loved ones and having their families torn apart. No parent should have to endure this pain. @FrontlineImProj is mobilizing to support the first responders who are working tirelessly to bring people to safety and reunite families. We’re helping companies donate food, beverages, and personal care items to those on the front lines. If your company can help, please visit frontline.builders (link in bio). Let’s come together to support our community in this time of need. #beabuilder #howtohelp #donate

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#howtohelp 3. Feel free to take anything from the twitter or discord community and use it for your content on whatever platform you are on. Just make sure to credit people if it belongs to someone else 👍

#howtohelp 2. You can also recruit people to our discord or twitter community if you want to. Twitter is our main community where we can get attention directly from publishers, so the Twitter community is the highest priority of where we want people to go.

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This month is Human Trafficking Prevention month, though there should never be a time limit on awareness. Sometimes we can feel overwhelmed and helpless to do anything. But one person can make a difference. #endtrafficking #howtohelp #InOurBackyard #RedeemingLoveFoundation

The Los Angeles wildfires have caused devastation across the region. Here’s how you can help first responders, evacuees, and impacted communities.#LAWildfires #Donate #HowToHelp #LosAngelesFires thecinemagroup.co/news/la-wi…

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Save the Date! #GivingTuesday is on December 3. Support performing arts and entertainment professionals by making a donation to the Entertainment Community Fund at entertainmentcommunity.org/G…. Thank you for your generosity! #HowtoHelp #StrongerTogether

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