It's still a male hobby that's male dominated regardless. Romance Novels and Soap Operas are majorly dominated by women and you don't see men complaining about being the minority in those hobbies. It all comes down to interest and a majority of women don't have interest in games.
If gaming was always a male hobby, then what exactly was I doing for the last 30 years?
If a man plays video games, it's a hobby. If a woman plays video games, what is it? A job? Community service? Was I performing unauthorized access to joy?
Do you see how goofy you sound?