How DARE you read my mind and project it out loud!
But seriously: The ambition to shame pipeline is robust. Put another way, the ambition to /success/ pipeline is very fragile and easily cracks open, spewing misspent ambition into an ocean of shame.
SafeToFail: not just for dev
there’s a certain pattern i fall into where
1. i am very determined to improve myself and change my life, and come up with ambitious goals to do this
2. i fail to meet these goals and feel shame about it