yup - there’s so many signs
easily spottable once you learn the tells
- needs constant affirmations and mindset juju
- obsessed over social media status
- obsessed with material wealth
- aversion towards all forms critical feedback
— views anything that isn’t praise as an attack
- surrounds themself with simps
the signs and tells are extremely obvious once you learn how to read them
its essentially just internal vs external inflation
high self-esteem runs on its own power
low self-esteem needs constant external validations and affirmations to cope with its underlying self-uncertainty
this is why I’ve also made a bunch of posts in the past about simps and simp psychology
both men and women can have simps, in fact men are often far worse with their simps than women are
low self-esteem men will always surround themselves with ass lickers who constantly affirm their value to those around them
disgusts me
I was so sickened by it when I was 19, 20, 21 - that I gained a permanent repulsion towards it
I cannot stand men who lick ass or who surround themselves with ass lickers (its usually the exact same type of man just in disempowered vs empowered scenarios)
weak slimy creatures who have never stood alone a single moment in their life
nothing masculine about them
I cannot be friends with men I do not respect - and I will never respect the ass licker or those who surround themselves with them
I can be domineering, but I’ll never make anyone lick my ass - it would be a disgrace for me as I humiliate the person into doing it, and humiliate myself by needing it
when I command, its only to make you become greater and walk with a straighter spine
for example in my friend circles there aren’t clean cut hierarchies
we push each other, we can mock each other, tease each other, but we always have each others backs
to someone with low self-esteem it can seem extremely toxic
in fact when we were younger, people would say we were the most toxic friend group they’ve seen
because we would clown each other and go into hysteria from the laughing fits we would have from tricking or tripping each other
but it only gave us deep bonds with over a decade long close friendships
to high self-esteem you want friends where you can constantly rip on each other and trick each other and trip out without anyone making a stench and crying afterwards
it keeps the ego and shape and gives you good mental-emotional fitness
to the low self-esteem and ass lickers they can never understand something like that however, because to them it will always seem “dangerous”, “arrogant”, “toxic” and whatever else they called us
It's always funny to witness people tryna BUY self esteem...
As if you find self-love, one expensive clothing item at a time...
As if you find self-love, tryna act for the masses...
No, no, no sir...
Self-esteem is who you are, even when you have nothing...
Your REAL core...