Three Questions Every Leader Must Answer – Before It's Too Late
Every leader and decision-maker must ask themselves these three questions every single time before committing to a path of confrontation:
1. What are we trying to achieve?
2. How do we know when we've achieved it?
3. How do we get out?
If you can't clearly answer all three, you're not ready. Period.
Look at the U.S.-Israel-Iran war. The Obama administration built toward the JCPOA the Iran nuclear deal. It wasn't perfect no deal ever is, but it included real verification, structure, and buy-in from Europe, Russia, and China. It gave the world eyes on Iran's nuclear program.
I was personally invited (along with thousands of others) to join a telephone conversation with President Obama to support the JCPOA, and I did. We had a framework.
Then in 2018, it was torn up. No replacement, no alternative, just withdrawal and a bet on "
#MaximumPressure." It didn't bring Iran to its knees. It brought escalation. Slow, grinding, predictable escalation.
Wars don't start the day the first bomb drops. They start with the decisions no one is paying attention to.
By June 2025, we saw the 12-Day War inconclusive, bloody, and destabilizing. Diplomacy was sidelined. Back channels severed. Ultimatums replaced strategy. Ultimatums only work with real leverage and a clear plan. Without them, they're just words that box you in.
Then on February 28, 2026, the U.S. and Israel launched coordinated strikes on Iranian missile sites, air defenses, and military infrastructure. And now? Former Israeli Prime Minister Ehud Barak has warned on Channel 13 that this war may be sliding into a prolonged phase of stagnation early gains giving way to attrition, weaker negotiations, or worse.
When you take diplomacy off the table, you don't get peace. You get a longer, costlier road to war. And that's exactly where we are today with no off-ramp in sight.
Leaders: Ask three questions. Answer them honestly. Or history will answer you.
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Diplomacy isn't weakness—it's the off-ramp before the cliff. Ignore it, and we all pay the price.
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