Was I the problem?
I drove two hours to be with a woman because she was alone on a work trip. I took her for a drink then back to her hotel and hugged her. We were in a weird spot where she was seeing someone but had indicated she wanted to be with me so no kiss or anything else that night so as to not cross a line. She asks about distance the next day. I lay out a full week of time together over Thanksgiving on Sunday as a way to make distance less of an issue, after she tried to say she was being too emotional in talking about us being together. She says I crossed a line.
Was I the problem? I think I should have stayed away because she had given mixed signals before. So that was my problem, but once I went down I don’t think I handled it wrong.
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