I’m the latter but soze undibone etherapy because I really don’t give men that much power over me yhuuu rhaaa ngathi ndiyazibona, angandigabha amaRhudulu😭😭😭😭😭
In the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girl asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.