Even by your standards, Bev, this is truly desperate stuff. Bringing up my dad, uncle and grandparents in your desperation for people to un-see an exchange that they can’t un-see, is utterly bizarre. Our “debate” speaks for itself.
It would be impossible for me to be prouder of my father, uncle and grandparents, all four remarkable human beings. That said, I would never, ever involve your family in a public exchange. I’d recommend taking some time away from the keyboard.