Men gotta stop looking at sex from a perspective that they have to conquer and rather as a form of intimacy and getting closer to women.. it's not a war, not something to be won, rather something to be cherished and felt.. it's a duet, you have to match the rhythm of your lover
people say that sex is the ultimate form of intimacy but i have observed that men often see the act of penetration as a power and authority move. Women and gay men are looked down upon in society largely for this reason, even men who get 'pegged' if we have to make that stretch