I think what muddies this all "genital preferences" discourse for everyone is thinking intimacy goes hand in hand with respect and political solidariry (not saying that's what OP thinks) Unfortunately conservative trans chasers who hire trans escorts in private but vote them 1/
if were being so for real genital preference is a sign of a dead imagination and a lack of empathy. if you cannot see a body as relational to a person you aren't having sex but choosing a cut of meat