What happens when children are taught that adults are always right? They may stop asking questions. They may learn to obey before they understand. They may begin to believe that authority matters more than truth. Respect for adults is important but so is teaching children that truth can be pursued with courage, curiosity and honesty. A child who can question respectfully is not being disrespectful. They are learning to think. Are we raising children to obey authority or to seek truth?

What everyday inconvenience do you think people tolerate too much?

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💭 A CONVERSATION THAT GOT ME THINKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGES THAT WE FAIL TO PAY ATTENTION TO💔 . ​Interviewer: What are the signs that a man is in love with a manipulative partner? ​Speaker: Hmm. Personally, I think the most dangerous manipulative woman is not the one that control you with force. ​Interviewer: Okay. ​Speaker: Is the one that controls you without you realizing it. ​Interviewer: Wow.

You're always online…. don't you have work? ME:

What a classical slap! Chioma, but why? Those words still echo in my ears 2 weeks after the event. I walked into a restaurant/bar in one of the suburbs in the mainland. The place was serene, cosy , and quite sweetly calm, with soft jazz music playing at a reasonable volume. I sat down at a table, and the waiter took my order and delivered accordingly. Across some 6 feet sat a young dark skinned lady with brown eyes and dazzling smiling that is captivating. As I was taking my meal and drink, I did not realise she was just glancing at me from the rim of her wine glass, trying to catch my attention. I suddenly heard the clatter of cutlery and looked to know where it's coming from, and our gaze got fixated. The cutlery clumsily fell from her fingers to the plate and caused the sound. She had my attention. A lady walked and asked to sit on the vacant seat, but she motioned it was occupied. So, I became more curious about who it was reserved for? And why does it seem she needs me to sit there. As she motioned to me to please come over and sit, a grand entrance was made. Everyone in the restaurant turned to see the entourage coming in. A young man about 1.93m tall, athletic build, and nicely trimmed beards walked in. He gracefully walked towards the lady who had motioned me to come over to her table. My heart beat increased as I watched in awe. He approached her, knelt on one knee, brought out a 24-carat gold ring from his pocket, and said: Chioma, will you marry me? Chioma stood up and looked at him with utter surprise. The entire restaurant paused phones, recording videos for gossiping later. Chioma raised her right hands up and, with one sweet ferocity, landed a devastating military grade slap on the guys face. He collapsed to the ground, and his friends rushed to help him up the ring, spiralling off his hand. A young lady sitting close to her table just shouted "Chioma but why?" What could have made Chioma act this way? Is Dantata going to be OK? Watch out for part 2....

Apps and websites forcing you to download their specific application just to read a single article or look at one image.

If the person making you smile today is the reason you're thinking of leaving your marriage or serious relationship... pause for a moment. 💭🥀 Because sometimes what looks like love is simply excitement wearing a beautiful disguise. A lady called me yesterday. She was crying. Not the kind of crying that comes from anger. The kind that comes when life finally teaches a lesson you wish you had learned earlier. 💔 Her husband had just left her. Left her and their two children for another woman. She was devastated. Broken. Confused. As I listened to her, one thing kept playing in my mind. Years ago, this same woman did exactly the same thing to someone else. 🥀 She was married then. Her marriage wasn't perfect. They had misunderstandings. Arguments. Challenges. Like most marriages do. People advised her to work things out. Family members spoke to her. Friends spoke to her. But she had already made up her mind. 💭 Why? Because there was another man. A colleague at work. A man who was always kind. Always available. Always understanding. Always buying gifts. Always telling her how much better life could be with him. ❤️ Compared to her husband, this new man seemed perfect. The attention felt good. The validation felt good. The excitement felt good. Eventually, she left her marriage and chose him. She believed she had found her happiness. She believed she had upgraded her life. She believed she had made the right choice. Until yesterday. 🕯️ Now the same man she left everything for has left her too.

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A broken chair in an office may look like nothing. But when everyone sees it, complains about it, avoids it and nobody fixes it, that chair becomes a symbol. It says the system can notice discomfort and still ignore it. Small broken things teach people what kind of larger neglect they should expect.

Hard times will pass, but the way people treat you during those hard times matters most. Takes notes 📝

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Backup plans are useful. But needing them for everything is a warning sign.

People say “Always have a backup plan” That sounds wise until backup plans become necessary for basic things; power, water, transport, safety, information, payment and trust. At that point, people are not being smart. They are compensating for systems that keep failing. A society is weak when survival requires everyone to privately solve public problems. Which public problem are you able to solve for yourself?