Most men are losing: Their marriage. Their health. Their kids. Their purpose. I’m documenting the fight to win all four. 🇺🇸 Air Force Veteran | Husband | Father

36 in July Married 5 years together 12 COVID and pregnancy delayed wedding lol 2 kids Multiple career pivots two time college drop pot, military, Powersports, construction, distribution, supply chain Digging out financial debts while living life to fullest Went from many friends to one core couple we hang out with My advice: Pick a job/career stick to the training/college till you can provide for a future family then pivot as many times as you want once you have good cash flow Budget for INVESTING EARLY learn the power of compounding interest Travel the world everything is perspective (so many religions and cultures to explore to develop your own opinion) Sleep, Diet, and exercise lifestyle habit is a requirement Simultaneously with above always be looking for a beautiful wife to create a nuclear family

Jay Collins looks like the no brained pick to me

Jay Collins (DeSantis-appointed Lt. Gov, Green Beret veteran with Purple Heart, 23 yrs Special Forces, served post-amputation, ex-State Sen) brings strong military leadership recent exec experience. He's earned some local endorsements (e.g. Miami-Dade Commissioner René Garcia) and positions as Day One ready for DeSantis continuity. Byron Donalds (US Rep FL-19, prior FL House with subcommittee chairs, finance background) leads the GOP primary (~46-54% in recent polls) with Trump's endorsement. Trump backed Donalds early; Collins trails significantly in fundraising/polling. No single "best"—voters pick Aug 18. Collins emphasizes military grit FL gov continuity. Donalds emphasizes legislative record Trump alignment. Primary decides.

Gains 💪🏻skinny to fit ain’t easy it’s slow build just like fat loss

This can't wait. Kids and teens are being targeted online right now — and every one of us has a role to play in stopping it. Not just parents. Every person in a child's life. Start with an honest conversation. Set digital boundaries. Know the warning signs.

Single people are single for a reason: They can’t keep their word. After decades of analyzing both singles and married people, the biggest differentiating factor is integrity. Singles fly by the seat of their pants: no check-ins, no follow-through broken commitments They act like they’re the only person in the world and don’t consider the other person Not “in the mood”? Something better comes along? They ghost. When you combine selfishness and no integrity, you stay single. I’ve seen this pattern too many times not to know the signs. Next time someone complains the dating world is messed up, remember: they’re not innocent.

You can have all the money in the world and be the loneliest and most depressed person because you’re always chasing the next high. Why do American generally push working on our careers first and producing income before we work on finding a relationship? And most households who you come home to in the family, you create is the happiness no one ever said on their deathbed they wish they had more money. However, to be in a healthy relationship, you must take care of yourself first which means your mind and body so working on physical fitness and mental health is important to be able to hold a healthy relationship. So you can definitely try to solve your own problems with a relationship, but that’s not going to help. First learn to be a provider and enjoy life and then find a long-term monogamous relationship and create a family in your life will be exponentially better

Sheeesh. 🇺🇸

Playing devil's advocate: Investing for your deathbed? Most 65-year-olds can still earn income from work, socialize, and keep their bodies moving. Or they can retire, sit at home, slowly regress, play bingo and slots, and take cruises. We 100% need balance, but unless your goal is to leave an inheritance, people who earn a good living often save too much! Plenty of people don’t earn money due to laziness, and they don’t deserve much anyway. Most people are saving for a version of themselves that may never exist. Build wealth. Absolutely. But don’t sacrifice your healthiest decades just to become the richest guy in the nursing home. Invest in your future while you’re still young enough to enjoy it. Money creates options. Health creates opportunities. You need both.

Hmmm I’m in top 2.5%

A lot of people optimize for net worth at 65 and accidentally sacrifice the healthiest years of their life. The sweet spot is building assets while also buying back time and experiences today. Is this a good goal? 70% VOO / QQQ 401(k) match 20% Building a side business that could eventually replace your salary 10% Experiences with your wife and kids right now

Yes I agree one divorce, 3 years a slaying as many women as possible with terrible srx, to now married again last 12 years nothing beats long term game and good sex built up by building a family together!

Being a good husband is harder than building muscle. One takes an hour in the gym. The other takes discipline every day.

Weighted dips 🔥

Common secular moral values Honesty – Tell the truth and be trustworthy. Compassion – Care about the well-being of others. Fairness – Treat people justly and consistently. Responsibility – Own your actions and obligations. Respect – Recognize the dignity and autonomy of others. Courage – Do what’s right even when it’s difficult. Self-discipline – Control impulses and think long term. Humility – Be open to being wrong and learning. Gratitude – Appreciate what others contribute. Service – Leave people, communities, and the world better than you found them.

One thing I’ve noticed is that humanity has created thousands of religions, denominations, and belief systems, yet most people agree on the same core principles: be honest, protect your family, keep your word, help others, and don’t intentionally harm people. Maybe our biggest challenge isn’t finding another religion or ideology—it’s actually living out the values nearly all of us already know are right. The common ground between humans seems a lot bigger than the things that divide us.

Number one key in life is physical health by whole food diet and exercise. No processed foods, nicotine, alcohol in moderation if you can’t moderate quit, or anything that negatively impacts your vital organs and health. After that other puzzle pieces fall in line!