Lucy โ€ข 32 โ™€๏ธ โ€ข @StephsNaFluffy's wife ๐Ÿ’• โ€ข prisoner of Eastern Europe โ€ข ambiphilic โ€ข diagnosed with transsexualism โ€ข 4/4/23 ๐Ÿ’Š โ€ข 23/11/23 ๐Ÿ’‰ โ€ข priv: @Abyssmoder

Joined October 2016
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People are upset but it's probably true, I don't really think that a random lesbian would have the expertise to reliably tell them apart.
Go fuck yourself, seriously.
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How many genders are there?
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I am cruel to myself because I'm a worse person and only I deserve it, no one else.
I think people who are cruel to themselves often believe their internal harshness is positive/makes them better people. this leads to suspicion of those who seem to allow themselves to take up more space or seem to believe they deserve gentleness
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I don't consider it transphobic. Idk why some people say that it is.
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Same girl, same.
cis brainworms are powerful ropefuel
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Transtwt is 90% bioessentialists, "allies", and yass-queens.
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I peaked at birth and from then on everything started going downhill.
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At the end of the day, members of society do not have access to your privately held beliefs nor your invisible traits, they don't know what you genuinely identify as, they only intuitively interact with you on the basis of the alignment between your appearance and your behaviour.
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It depends, boymoding is a very neutered type of presentation with mostly absent gendered elements of expression and presentation. When transfems stop shaving their face/body, are visibly balding, dress and behave performatively male, many will perceive it as damaging to optics.
why is it so accepted for transfems to boymode but when i girlmode im a troon theyfab tucute transtrender. can i get an explanation on this that actually makes fucking sense why is it okay for transfems to be masculine as a means of self preservation but transmascs are -
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I would even say that most people treat it much worse.
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Every cis man likes to imitate a girlvoice every once in a while for no reason other than his own personal comfort, right? We all do this, it's very normal behaviour!!
I find it hilarious that transgenders spend thousands of hours "voice training" just to have a voice that i myself could do in 5 seconds if i really wanted to.
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I try to avoid participating in xenogender discourse as it's very obviously adults and adolescents with arrested development misusing transgender and gender-diverse terminology and framing it as deep and complex queer experience equally as valid as transsexual medical conditions.
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Gender is the socialised obverse of sex. ๐Ÿ˜‹
โ€˜sex is not genderโ€™ but that does not mean that sex is some kind of biological base on which a gendered superstructure is projected. sex is the gendering of the body! its all social!
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My skull unironically looks exactly like the picture on the right, though.
transphobes will say โ€œwe can always tellโ€ and then proceed to show you a diagram that looks like fucking this
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Being overly positive or censoring realistic limitations to avoid deterring people is not compassionate, it's deceptive. Adults considering transition deserve the unvarnished truth so they can make genuinely informed choices.
I get sooooo annoyed with trans women who doom about hrt. 2 years is not a long time on HRT! Many trans women continue to get effects for up to 5 years! And please stop harmfully generalizing hrt in a negative way. That's literally gonna scare people to stay in the closet. /1
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If acknowledging HRT's constraints is enough to make someone reconsider, that suggests they may not have been ready or dysphoria-driven enough in the first place, and dishonesty will only make matters worse.
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This is the ideal male body. You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.
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I'm malefailing even in my dreams, wtf. Hugboxers are everywhere.
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I love spending time with my wife and watching films next to each other in Bigscreen VR. ๐Ÿ’œ
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