Married men look at your wives,boys look at your girlfriends,Bachelors look at your right hands and ask yourselves,would this bitch stick with me if I lost everything I have today? If you are not sure the answer is probably No. She wouldnt. Hapa watu wataponea ni bachelors and its because their hands cant run away to masturbate someone else.
I believe when choosing a partner this should be the biggest determinant of all,wachana na mambo ya matako ama kama nyonyo zimepoint west pokot ama Nyeri. That in the long run becomes useless. I tell you this as someone who has passed that road.
A man needs a partner who tells him you are going to make it,even when all the odds appear to be against him. And if he loses she will be there to tell him its alright,Support. Sio hawa maghasia wakukuambia "Na nilijua tu" . A man needs a woman who believes in him and his ambitions,a woman who will take a loan for him during his lowest and a woman who says sawa baba chris i respect your decision. Kama hudhani mwenye mko nayeye hawezi fanya hii,there is no future. You might as well quit now.
And its not a lie,for every great man,there is woman behind him. Could be his sidechick,could be his wife,could be his mother. Angalia kasongo,he has a very supportive wife. Im in bed she whispers to his left ear "Sam kenyans love you even if they call you kasongo,si ata mimi huwa unanitwanga makofi na bado nakupenda? Bas,emane chekit"