I've seen this constantly on both tumblr and twitter, it genuinely seems like people only accept aro/ace folk if they can Still be in romantic/sexual relationships- they fight for the nuance of it being a spectrum, but only on the end they like. ๐ญ
Iโm kinda sick of allos spreading the โaro/ace people can still be in romantic/sexual relationships!โ thing cause I never hear anyone supporting those who arenโt and donโt want to be? And Iโm saying this as an asexual in a relationship with an aromantic person. ๐ญ