I remember when I was aggressively preaching that every money in the home should be used to run the family and then someone said I should “marry first”.
I told her I was married, she said na woman wey no fine I marry na why she dey drop her money for family use.
I looked at her media and discovered she was a faceless account and kept it moving.
Someone too will call me a fool for providing yet cleaning the house because in his or her mind, the idea of a considerate spouse is inexistent in their own world.
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If people will not ask you to marry first, they will tell you to wait for 19 years before you can talk, some will think you’re jobless because you wash plate in your house, others will say your wife is landwhale or doesn’t have choice that’s why she has family values.
Anything at all to discredit the truth and face their stupid choices.