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Not exactly. Bannin under-16s from anything means now everyone has to give an ID to use it. It means mass controll by a foreign megacorporation and death of privacy
Banning under-16s from YouTube mostly means banning them from logging in, which means YouTube will treat them less like kids and more like anonymous adults. Great job, UK.
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I've seen a tons of times the "asking pronouns is bad becouse they let you know they clocked you" and I'm like... I get why it's annoying but the alternative seems always to ignore the fact that "just assume" will mean that a chunk of ppl will just assume wrong.
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(beside the implicit "fuck the nonbinaries".../ )
So, there's this incredible thing called "masturbation" when ypu can take care of ypur secual urges by yourself. There are also a ton of objects you can use to make it esier and more enjoyable. Maybe you should have some sex ed om that.
again i think we need to put women through sex ed again where they get a lesson on what blueballing is and why men are frustrated about this
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100% this. Everyone will keep complaining about how ppl they hire are never good at their job,then procede to select candidates via "the best compulsive liar award".
Replying to @Squeeze1i
Recruitment is a broken model which doesn't suit ND or many other people at all. It rewards dishonesty and exaggeration and there is no way ND people fit neatly in the box displayed.
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I didn't think I was neurodivergent becouse I can navigate the rest of social life decently (even if in my peculiar way), but when I entered the job market I realized is like everyone else has a little instruction book with the rules of the game and I don't.
Applying for jobs while neurodivergent is confusing. The job ad lists a bunch of requirements. I don't have half of them. Apparently the correct response is still to apply. Why are we all pretending the list isn't there?
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We literally are not. That's why just a little bit of hormones is enough to change basically all the traits that make us gender someone at first glance.
i wish humans were not a "john sexual dimorphism" species
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Careful edgy boy! You could cut on that edge!
Rainn Wilson says "The Office" probably wouldn’t be made today, telling Fox News Digital that media trends have shifted left and that cancel culture makes it difficult for edgy comedies to thrive.
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I can't find the survey to check the notes for the data collecting, but every time I see this chart it drives me insane. Are "men" and "women" only hetero cis ones or is a cumulative value of everyone? Why bisexuals are not divided by gender?
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Why are trans ppl again grouped as a single gender and sexuality? Like, the way this chart is worded and the data grouped says more on the understanding of gender and sexuality of the ppl who did this, than anything else.
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I'll explain my view in good faith. "More than friends" imply there's a linear progression of intimacy and attachment inherently gerarchical, where friendship is something casual and "lesser" and anything involving romantic/sexual feelings is "more" (implied more important,
tbh I actually don't understood why describing a romantic relationship as "more than friends" makes some people upset. it literally is more than friends. are you not friends with your romantic partner? doesn't that make your romantic partner friends PLUS romance? aka, more?
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consider friendship as a stage in your journey to get married and make a family. None ever says "we're more than friends" to say "we're fuck buddies", the sentence is always intended to be "we're romantically involved" wich is supposed to have more value than a friendship,
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again becouse is considered a step torwards marriage>kids>utimate happy ending.
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I feel it's a core problem of aphobia to consider a life without partners "sad" or lesser. I know the picture creates an impact when justaposed to others pictures of couples, but maybe is an impact we should interrogate and deconstruct more, instead of expecting ace/aros to just
all other sexualities in the viral sea drawings are with their partners, so its a bit sad to see asexual be the only one alone. not all asexuals are aromantic, aces can have romantic partners too.
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look like allos. We live on a society very centered in couples and everyone outside of that relationship model gets constantly diminished for it. In pride month, I think an ace person chillin' by themsef without the need to have a partner is precisely what we need to remember,
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remind and reclaim. A good chunk of Ace and Aros are fine without a partner and that's ok.
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