Healing myself 🫂

💚 jodoh itu konsepnya gimana ya? udah tertulis di lauhul mahfudz dan gabisa diubah, apa masih bisa berubah?

Nah the World Cup vibes are unmatched, this video is killing me😭😭😭

Never regret the love you give. It returns to you in another time, in another person, in other circumstances, but it always comes back to you.

ternyata gw blm se-mature itu buat explaining why do i get so disappointed, why do i feel like u dont appreciate me enough, why do i feel like im worthless, keep wondering "w/o my body & money, would people still be around me?", and why are u so inconsiderate

1000 kpm ( kiss per minute )

and someday, when the ego wears off, i hope you realize everything could’ve been fixed with one emotionally mature conversation

When your heart is pure, you run into the most disgusting type of humans.

"you look tired" bro i want to stop existing

I think we underestimate how difficult it is to find genuine partners.

maybe one day we'll meet again and explain to each other what really happened. maybe one day we'll finally understand. until then, i hope you live your best life. and i hope you really do all things you always said you wanted to do...

finally accepting that we were nothing and i over romanticized the whole thing

Marry someone you love talking to. You'll come home to that voice, go to sleep to that voice, wake up to that voice. You'll have thousands of conversations, some deep, some dull, some in passing, some in anger. But if you can talk through anything, you can get through anything.

The only lesson people learn after breakup is to be less romantic to their next partner.

the older i get the more i appreciate being out of the loop. i don’t want to know anything about anyone

Walking away from a relationship you genuinely wanted to work? That type of pain changes a man. But it is what it is.

you deserve someone who thinks you're too important to lose and proves it with consistency, consideration, and respect.

Bnr banget. Ada kepuasan tersendiri punya pasangan yang bisa menjadi ruang aman untuk bertanya tanpa takut dihakimi. Menghargai cara dia memperlakukan pikiran kita jauh lebih berkesan. Setiap kali dia mulai menjelaskan sesuatu dengan sabar, rasanya seperti jatuh cinta dengan versi baru terus-menerus. Daya tarik intelektual yang sesungguhnya. ✨

makanya kalo punya hubungan itu tumbuh bareng, bukan salah satunya aja yang dipaksa berubah jadi versi yang lu mau. some of you spend so much time analyzing other people’s flaws that u’ve CONVINCED yourselves ure the only person in the relationship who doesnt need to change

Mengapa Kita Bisa Mencintai Seseorang Sangat Dalam Sebelum Benar-Benar Bersamanya? Ada sebuah pertanyaan menarik dari sudut pandang psikologi dan filsafat: "Bagaimana mungkin kita bisa mencintai seseorang begitu dalam, padahal kita belum benar-benar hidup bersamanya dan mengenalnya secara utuh?" Perasaannya terasa begitu nyata. Kita memikirkannya setiap hari, membayangkan masa depan bersamanya, bahkan merasakan sakit yang sungguh nyata ketika ia menjauh. Padahal, mungkin kita belum pernah benar-benar mengenal seluruh dirinya.

NANTI KALAU KAMU KETEMU ORANG YANG TENANG. Kamu akan sadar... Betapa nyamannya berada di dekat seseorang yang tidak bereaksi berlebihan terhadap setiap masalah. Betapa berharganya seseorang yang tetap bisa bersikap baik, bahkan ketika keadaan tidak berjalan sesuai keinginannya. Kadang kedewasaan tidak terlihat dari seberapa banyak seseorang berbicara, tetapi dari seberapa tenang ia menghadapi kehidupan.