Happily married man living his best Proverbs 5:19 life. One man one woman / naked and not ashamed in an undefiled bed. Anti porn but pro vibrancy.

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Using language to arouse romantic feelings in your wife isn't only smart, it's Biblical. Ever read Song of Solomon? 🤨 The techniques used in this video are based on observation and from counseling several husbands on the matter. Try it yourself. Start a fire. #marriedlife #sex
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When you have 4 kids getting 5 days away in a row seems impossible or prohibitively expensive. I'm happy to get an overnight date once a year.
Marriage advice: The first thing my wife & I plan every year is 5/6 days away with NO KIDS! Super grateful we are blessed with eager grandparents!! Just checking in here for a couple nights of fun together! ❤️🔥 We also do quarterly overnight date nights. Every week we do a couple date nights as well. Our kids know we love GOD, EACH OTHER, & then THEM in that order. Our kids witness mom & dad in love 12 years in. Marriage shouldn't be two exhausted roommates raising kids never connecting...... Do you want that for your kids one day?! If not, then realign priorities & Create time to be MAN & WIFE not just mom & dad. LOVE YOUR KIDS SO MUCH YOU IGNORE THEM FROM TIME TO TIME TO ENSURE THE MARRIAGE IS THRIVING!!
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People often look for ways to invent moral rules for sex when the Biblical ones are strict enough.
I just learned that Catholics consider oral sex to be a mortal sin, even within marriage, and I have never felt more relieved to be a Protestant.
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If I told my 24yr old self something as a newlywed it would be - lust after your wife continually and see it as you will be married to a new woman every season essentially.
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Jesus criticized the Pharisees too. A hypocritical self righteous culture with non Biblical standards is also evil and not representative of God as an atheistic one is.
Far more teenagers were harmed by the fornication culture I grew up in than the purity culture my children grew up in. At least, they were taught an alternative to the fornication culture.
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There wasn't Pei Wei restaurants in the 1960s either. Divorce isn't caused by a sex manual and this is ridiculous.
There were no sex manuals in America before the 60s, yet marriages lasted a lifetime. Now, there are many sex manuals, and divorce is rampant. We don’t need sex manuals. We need commitment for life and learn to enjoy each other alone together without porn or sex manuals which are more destructive on marriages than beneficial.
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I don't think calling it equal to porn completely makes sense because the genders are different and the products are different. Video games might be a better parallel. Both can satisfy psychological needs that are better found outside of fantasy.
Women's "smut." There is a critical misunderstanding of women's "romance novels." They're not pornography. Technically, they're more akin to pulp adventure stories for men. The fact that there's a sexual element invites confusion because sex isn't the same for men and women. I'll explain: 1. The heroic story for men is one on which a man takes risks for some noble end. He exposes himself to danger, often violence. 2. The equivalent concept for women isn't a woman doing those things. It's sex. Sex is more dangerous for women because of pregnancy. Consequently, sex is where a woman exposes herself to danger... For some end. When that end is noble, it's a romance. Romance novels are to women what adventure stories are to men. Sex, to women, is not the same thing as sex to men. The equivalent of porn for women? It's actually just porn.
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Put down your phone, have sex, and make more babies…please.
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Biblical Exegesis 101: The Song of Solomon is, in fact, about the intimacy and ecstasy of marital sex.
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Biblical Theology 101: The Song of Solomon is not about the intimacy and ecstasy of marital sex.
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The modern church often treats gluttony (a biblical vice) with more grace and infrastructure than it treats marital sex (a biblical virtue).
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There is a Biblical term for gluttony. There is no Biblical term for wanting sex with your spouse too often.
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Minimizing sexual pleasure is demonic.
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Obviously, in harmony with the other commands. Not prioritizing it over the others.
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I've been married 17 years and I love sex more than ever. What is this nonsense.
dark sides of marriage you need to know before you commit 1. intimacy fades, you’ll get tired of sex 2. you’ll become just mere roommates who pay bills together and discuss responsibilities 3. resentment can build quietly and before you notice, it becomes normal or hatred 4. financial stress destroys romance faster than infidelity ever could 5. you can lose yourself or your identity so much that you forget who you were before the commitment 6. you can be feeling lonelier sleeping with him/her next to you than you felt sleeping alone 7. routine makes everything feel repetitive, boring and emotionally draining 8. many people stay cos of the kids while dying silently inside they won’t teach you this in school, only experience will and i learnt them the hard way over the years so bookmark and share with others buena suerte 👍
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All hands on deck. This is absolutely shameful @TeamYouTube. Sacred Bricks has 1.32 MILLION subscribers. He's a hand made creator and he's been trying to explicitly document the incredible amount of detail that goes into every brick video in hopes of getting your attention. But because he doesn't have a giant X following you've been ignoring him. He's not a small creator.
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Replying to @andresorthodox
Weird take and completely false doctrine. Nothing more sacred and amazing than married sex.
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Marriage is also less common. But it's time to talk about how sexually repressive the culture is, even as it attempts to hijack and commoditize sex with distractions.
A strange feature of our moment is that while cultural messaging is highly sexualized, we are in what my @FamStudies colleagues @BradWilcoxIFS and @grantjbailey have termed a sex recession. Even as we talk more about sex, we’re having less of it.
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If you don’t know, Joel Webbon is a fraud and fake “Christian Nationalist” pastor, who used to be a woke Pastor out in CA, before he had to flee to Georgetown, TX to escape church discipline after a 10 month sexual affair with one of his parishioners. Once the sexual affair was finally disclosed, he lied and said he wasn’t a “real” Pastor back then even though he was listed on the church website as their Pastor and in his own bio as their Pastor and in their social media as their Pastor. He reinvented himself in Texas, as a Woke Right “Christian Nationalist” fake right-winger. He even changed his entire appearance to copy Matt Walsh and started speaking with a fake accent. His entire job is to promote himself AND to smear Christians, smear conservatives and smear “the right” by any means necessary. Also - to lead as many “little ones” astray as possible. If you are falling for him and thinking he’s for real, at this late stage, you are in need of some good discernment and good role models in your life. He is in a forthcoming psyop documentary called “What is Christian Nationalism” - intended to smear Christianity - where he sits there pretending to be a Christian Pastor and says “Christianity is Gay.” 😂 I’m not kidding! This really happened. They had to cut it out of the trailer bc so many people mocked them. Clip below if interested. About Woke Right: The Woke Right frauds sell a version of woke ideology to young people. Woke Left is tailored to be most seductive to young women. Woke Right is tailored to be most seductive to young men. They are both anti-American, demoralizing and built on resentment. BOTH are collectivist, authoritarian, identity-based Marxism. Both believe in attaining Power by any means necessary (are Machiavellian) and think violence and lies are acceptable behaviors to achieve power. They both worship power above all else. Both are antithetical to the Gospel.
Ahem. This is a Marxist and a Critical Theorist. This is a Woke person. If you don’t get that, you never learned the definition of Woke. You probably just say it when you don’t like something. 🤷‍♀️ If you’re having trouble, replace “Jewish Supremacy” with “white supremacy” or “male supremacy.” Starting to sound familiar? Next they’ll be telling us about ‘Toxic Jewry’ and ‘Jewish Privilege,’ and you’ll be bleating along about being a member of an oppressed identity and how Jews are the oppressor and it’s impossible to be racist towards the oppressor ….and the whole Woke kit and kaboodle. Some of you are already talking this way, because you trusted obvious Woke grifter snake-oil salesmen like Joel Webbon. 👀
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Imagine being a sexually mature adult and saying this.
Even in marriage, sex is gross.
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This is actually false. I know men with way more liabilities than this who got married. Don't fall for the black pill.
Let's assume you're a 25-year-old man who > Has an average appearance > Stands between 1.68 and 1.73 meters tall > Has a private-sector job > Earns between 30 and 50 thousand > Lives in a rental > Owns a simple motorcycle, no car > Is a virgin, kind, and religious > Has a great personality > Respects women On dating apps, you won't find a single girl, unless she's ugly/fat. No girl would willingly want to marry you. You're good in every way, but still, for most girls, you don't even exist. This is reality.
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It's also the reason anyone today is alive in the first place.
People’s sex drive destroys so many lives.
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