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Why She Likes You But Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You Have you ever had a woman texting you every day, laughing at all your jokes, and telling you what an amazing guy you are... Yet she still won't sleep with you? Meanwhile some other guy shows up and within a week she's in his bed. Most men assume it's because the other guy is better looking, richer, or more successful. After coaching thousands of men, I can tell you that's usually not the real reason. The real reason is that a woman can like you without desiring you. Here are 2 reasons this happens: 1) You're making sex feel like a reward. The more thirsty, needy, or outcome-dependent you seem, the less women tend to desire you. Why? Because she starts viewing sex as something she's giving to you rather than something she wants for herself. Once that happens, she often starts making you "earn it." The strongest mindset is: "I'm going to do my best to make this happen, but if it doesn't, I'll be perfectly fine." 2) She Sees You More As A Provider Than A Lover When a woman meets a guy, she generally puts him into one of two categories: lover or provider. A lover is a guy who emotionally and sexually excites her. Think James Bond or Hank Moody. A provider is a guy who checks all the logical boxes but doesn't create that same spark. Now, contrary to popular belief, this isn't always about money. She might just think the guy is kind, sweet, and would treat her right. Basically, make a great husband, but that sexual desire is missing. And unfortunately, a lot of men end up getting put into the provider box. So how do you get put into the lover category instead? For me, it came down to understanding female attraction. I used to go on dates and have nice, logical conversations. The dates went well. The girls liked me. But I wasn't getting laid very often. Then I started focusing on flirting, teasing, and creating sexual tension. My results changed dramatically. Most importantly, I learned how to become the kind of guy who is polarizing, emotionally exciting, and has an edge. Her impression should be: "I don't know if he'd make a good boyfriend, but he definitely turns me on." There are two more very important reasons, I break them down in today’s video below ⬇️

How To Become The Guy She Breaks Her Rules For "I don't hook up on the first date." "I don't sleep with guys unless we're official." "I don't chase men." Then one guy shows up…and suddenly all those rules disappear. A few years ago, I went on a date with a cute Brazilian girl. Things were going great. Eventually I brought her back to my place and we started making out on the couch. Right as I went to take her shirt off, she stopped me. "We can't do this. I have a rule. I don't sleep with guys on the first date." Ten minutes later, we were having sex. Most guys completely misunderstand situations like this. They assume her rules are set in stone. They're not. Women break their rules all the time for certain men. The question is how do you become that man? Here are 3 of the biggest factors: 1) Having Zero Shame Around Sex Women are much more likely to break their rules when they know they won't be judged for it. On that date, I was making sexual jokes, sharing stories, and getting her to share hers. At one point I told her: "It's weird how women get judged for this stuff but men don't. Sex is the most natural thing in the world." The more you normalize sex and remove judgment, the easier it becomes for her to let go of her own resistance. 2) Leading Im not talking about try hard stuff like trying to order for her. Leading is simply being the guy with the plan and getting other people to follow it. When setting up the date, she suggested a bar halfway between us. I suggested one near my place instead. Throughout the date, I was the one moving things forward. And when the moment was right, I was the one who said: "Let's get out of here." Most women don't want to move the interaction forward themselves. They’d rather follow a guy who leads 3) Not Caring About Arbitrary Social Rules When I met her at the bar, I dragged my chair right next to hers. She laughed and said: "I don't know if you're allowed to do that." I smirked and said: "I do what I want." A bit later on, I made a sexual joke a little too loudly. She playfully said, "Haha other people are going to hear you." I responded in a sarcastic way with “I don’t care, you’re the only one that matters babe” By showing her I wasn't worried about every little social rule, I communicated something important: I live life on my own terms. And that energy is contagious. When she sees you don't blindly follow society's rules, she becomes less attached to hers. I break down the full framework (including the most important factor) in the video below