How you actually deal with this when she does this but you aren’t 100% sure: 1️⃣ Make eye contact back with her and hold for 2 seconds 2️⃣ If she continues to hold, let a smile spread slowly on your face 3️⃣ If she smiles back, smile broader (like you’re about to laugh) and wave 4️⃣ If she laughs or waves back, that’s your green light 🟢 If at any point she breaks the chain, shrug & return to your workout. If you notice her staring at you again, repeat the process (she may have just chickened out the first go-round). There you go; you are all set.

The reason a woman gives you for rejecting you is never the actual reason. Regardless whether she says you’re too young, old, short, tall, (whatever). She doesn’t actually KNOW why she isn’t feeling it for you. All she does know is you just couldn’t make her feel it.

What do you think, fellas? Is it really 70:30 men:women on dating apps, or is it more like 95:5?

Girls want you to approach them. They don’t like being single. They want to meet someone. Here is a VERY SIMPLE GUIDE to start talking to women at nightlife venues: 1️⃣ Message your friends & acquaintances to see who’s going out. It’s easier with friends. 2️⃣ Talk to people as soon as you go out. Anyone, everyone. It’ll warm up your ‘social muscle’. 3️⃣ The universal no-risk nightlife opener: “What brought you all out tonight? What’s the occasion?” 4️⃣ Aim to be ‘locked in’ WITHIN the group within 2-3 minutes of opening. Don’t stand too long ‘out in space’ (feels & looks awkward beyond a few mins). 5️⃣ Make friends with everyone but save the FLIRTING exclusively for the girl you like (otherwise you will confuse the whole group). 6️⃣ Always be slightly (but not cartoonishly) higher energy than the people you approach. Higher energy = MORE FUN. People go to nightlife to HAVE FUN! If you’re bringing the fun, you’ll be welcome. 7️⃣ Easy game with groups of girls: “Let me guess: you’re the good girl… you’re the mother hen who keeps the group together… and YOU are the naughty one. This one’s trouble, right?” (ask the other girls while pointing at the ‘trouble girl’; trouble one is the one you like) 8️⃣ If you talk to her for 10 minutes, see if she’ll sit down with you. If you talk to her for 40 minutes, see if she’ll leave the bar with you (to a diner or your place). 9️⃣ It’s a bit controversial, but I recommend you do NOT kiss girls in public. Save the kissing for your place. Bar make-outs lead to cold feet more often than you’d think. Wait until you’re ALONE to do that! Remember: Talk to people right away, keep talking to people, invite women to sit and invite women to leave the venue with you. You will not get every girl, but you might be surprised how responsive SOME of the girls you talk to will be!