My husband divorced me because he caught me cheating. But what was I supposed to do when he stopped taking care of himself, grew a beer gut, and went bald? I'm not attracted to that. He didn't have the wisdom to shut up and work on himself instead he filed for divorce. Well, if you want a divorce, then here, take the kids and live however you want. I'm the one who gave birth, so you raise them. But then he wanted child support! I told him: I'll help out when I can. I'd send him like $150