This is absolutely the cycle of an avoidant. I hope they can heal that pattern or they will never experience truth depth.
#avoidant
The Avoidant Cycle
They get close, then panic.
They crave connection, then create distance.
They say they want love, but fear what it requires.
They miss you, but don't reach out.
They feel lonely, but avoid intimacy.
They want peace, but chase chaos.
They push away the very thing that could heal them.