Me on video call ignoring everything the person is saying and looking at myself.

Growing up in a Christian home but actually finding God on your own isn’t talked by enough

Laughter is anti-inflammatory. Crying is regulating. Hugging is immunoprotective. Singing is vagal toning. Dancing is neurogenic. Joy is a biological necessity.

If you pay the price for intimacy with God. There is nothing he won’t tell you or confirm through you. Try it today, 3 days retreat with God, no phones, no social media, no agenda no nothing, just you and God If you struggle to decipher the voice of God, this will help.

I really think one of the most underrated forms of luxury is having enough time to think, read, wander, and romanticize your own life a little.

i think we underestimate how much of a bully nigerian lecturers can be

Travelling to multiple cities is all fun and games until you have to give a detailed account of your scattered travel history on your visa applications

Lets get real its not going to last !

les clean girls et le capitalisme à son paroxysme partie 256

Anyway, just want women around me to understand, you need to start aspiring towards financial independence with the exact same urgency society wants you to aspire towards marriage.

a rare glimpse of Michael Jackson’s quiet world before fame and anything. this is more than magnificent. 🥹❤️

As a woman I am extremely aware the only reason I have rights is because women before me got mouthy, organized, and made herself inconvenient. Thats why I see women who uphold the patriarchy as traitors

You can't build an honest relationship with people who lie to themselves. You can't reach people who only see the version of you in their minds. You can't communicate with people who are always trying to one-up you. Distance yourself from such dynamics and prioritize reciprocity.

As men get older, their sperm quality depreciates and declines over time. Before you marry a man older than 35, think about your unborn children. When men above 35 or 40 get you pregnant, there is a higher risk of miscarriage or birth complications. Your child may also have a higher risk of autism spectrum disorder, schizophrenia, and genetic disorders such as achondroplasia and Apert syndrome. Especially when they don’t take their overall health, lifestyle and reproductive health seriously… on top of that some of them will still go and cheat with everything under a skirt, and contaminate the already weakened sperm with infection. Imagine a weak sperm with with infection 🙆🏾‍♂️

i’m writing a movie about a serial killer that kills people around him because he’s addicted to burial rice

Please I’m begging you, don’t forgive domestic abuse, that person doesn’t love you.

There is also a conversation we need to have with Christian men. Because some of you speak about women with an underhanded disdain that is deeply un-Christlike, then hide behind “biblical order” to justify it. You cannot simply look at every Christian woman who resonates with feminism and dismiss her as rebellious. History has shown women have had reasons to fight. The Church is not entirely innocent in the abuse and silencing of women. We have sometimes weaponized Scripture instead of rightly dividing it. Some women did not become angry because they hate God. They became angry because people used God against them. There are women who have been talked down to, ignored, diminished, spiritually manipulated, and emotionally controlled in church spaces while men quoted “submission” at them like a threat. And when women begin to push back against that, you cannot automatically label them rebellious without enough humility to ask: “What exactly are they reacting to?” Because even in Scripture, God did not condemn women who challenged systems. The daughters of Zelophehad fought. They contended. They challenged a structure that disadvantaged them. And God said: “The daughters of Zelophehad speak right.” (Numbers 27:7) Not rebellious. Not dishonorable. Not with the spirit of Jezebel… Right. Some of you need to realize that being male does not automatically make your interpretation superior. Statements like: “Woman was created later, therefore she is lesser,” “Eve was deceived, therefore women are inferior,” “Men are naturally superior because Adam came first,” do not make you sound spiritually mature. They make you sound biblically unintelligent. Genesis 1 says: “Male and female created he them.” God did not create woman as an afterthought. He had both genders in mind from the beginning. And Genesis 2 is not about superiority. It is about order. Order does not mean value. Christ and the Church have order. The Father and the Son have order. Order is not inferiority. In fact, biblical leadership is not domination. Christ never used His position to belittle the Church, He died for her. So how did some Christian men become more arrogant than Christ? You brandish submission like a weapon. You speak about masculinity like it is superiority. You talk about women as though leadership means lordship. News flash, you are not a biblical male. You are carnally minded and we all know what that means. To lead in our Kingdom is to serve. Where is your service?! And if creation order is your argument for superiority, then goats should be greater than men because animals were created before Adam. The logic collapses immediately. The truth is many women are angry because they encountered distortion disguised as doctrine. Male ego preached as theology. Misogyny defended with proof texts. And instead of constantly rushing to call women rebellious, maybe Christian men need enough self-awareness to ask: “Have we represented Christ properly?” Because many women are not rejecting Christ. They are reacting to men who looked nothing like Him. Love and Light… with a sprinkle of Holy Ghost Fire.

As someone who has had multiple burn outs, to a terrifying degree, let me tell you If you’re neurodivergent, rest won’t do it You need to refuel with your special interests You need novelty and challenge Sitting in silence and simply “resting” might only torture you, shem.

the older i get the heller the no

Michael Jackson is probably the last superstar we’ll ever have. Not because nobody else is talented. The world that made him is gone, and the kind of person he was doesn’t really happen anymore. And Taylor Swift doesn’t come close. Just calling it now. He came up in the last real monoculture. When something hit, it hit everybody on the same night. 47 million Americans watched the moonwalk at Motown 25 and the next morning every kid in the country was trying it on their kitchen floor. That’s not happening again. Taylor Swift sells out stadiums and there are still millions of people who couldn’t pick her song out of a lineup. Everybody now has a lane. MJ never had one. He was loved everywhere at the same time, because there was nowhere else for the culture to go. He shot the Beat It video with actual Crips and Bloods on set, from rival sets in LA, in the same room with him. Nobody else was doing that. Nobody else COULD. He was lonely and weird and broken, and he poured all of it into the music. There’s a reason you can still feel something in Billie Jean and She’s Out of My Life forty years later. That’s a person bleeding into a microphone. Not a brand. The biggest stars now are LLCs. They’re products. Taylor Swift is about breakups within a target demo. Songs are two minutes long because that’s what TikTok pays for. There’s no soul. MJ was a ridiculously talented person who actually moved people. Produced, wrote, danced, made short films it’s pretty insane. Anyways just saw the movie and was reminiscing. It’s like Hollywood. The era of superstars is waning. Don’t think we get another like him.