Maybe because I’m not part of the LGBT movement, but I seriously don’t get why queers are so obsessed with realism like in anime het romance would include love interests, who are aliens or gods and hetros are happy with that but God forbid a yuri or BL isn’t accurate
They dislike actual gay men, genuine intimacy, and realistic relationships. They dismiss male friendship and platonic love, yet glorify sexualized or abusive dynamics between men. Then they enter gay spaces and insist they're allies.