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happy men's mental health awareness month. #demeart

ok prove it simp

Chibi fans want to preach about men’s mental health while making fun of a man’s suicide attempt. I got slashed accidentally when I pulled the scissors away from him; trying to save his life from a horrible decision. Their obsession with the cuck fantasy also checks out. I had no idea that Chibi Reviews tried to take his own life, and i don’t wish that upon anyone. As I said before, I don’t care about the guy in general. I’m not gonna apologize to a guy who dated a teen when he’s pushing 30. Scammed his fans of thousands of dollars of a lawsuit that never happened. Never in my life have i heard of people siding with a cheating future wife in any scenario tbh. Yeah im not surprised the guy doesn’t understand boundaries / consent. If you want to hate me through how I speak and carry myself- fair game. However, if you’re going to always complain about harassment in twitter and cause harassment on me getting physically harmed it makes 0 sense. Anyway Imma continue my japan trip ✌️

Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder. It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD. They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged. People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves. They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim. They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off. She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife. Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her. The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be. The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral. The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to. TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.

This is honestly the reason why I do not talk about my BPD diagnosis… For years the stigma on BPD has haunted every single person that has been diagnosed, that they’re this unlovable, unempathetic monster that will use and abuse you at any given moment for their own personal gain. Do you people know the amount of trauma a person has to go through to be diagnosed with this awful disorder? Do you know that our brains literally REWIRED themselves as children to save us from that very trauma causing us to be the way that we are as adults? We are how we are because we were let down and abused and neglected. And do you think labelling us this way is going to help us feel like we are deserving of love and we do deserve happiness? It isn’t, living day to day with this disease is HARD. We are humans too you know, we were just let down… and we spend everyday of our lives trying to be better, for our families..friends…children. We aren’t monsters, and labelling us as such is so damaging.

Chibi fans want to preach about men’s mental health while making fun of a man’s suicide attempt. I got slashed accidentally when I pulled the scissors away from him; trying to save his life from a horrible decision. Their obsession with the cuck fantasy also checks out. I had no idea that Chibi Reviews tried to take his own life, and i don’t wish that upon anyone. As I said before, I don’t care about the guy in general. I’m not gonna apologize to a guy who dated a teen when he’s pushing 30. Scammed his fans of thousands of dollars of a lawsuit that never happened. Never in my life have i heard of people siding with a cheating future wife in any scenario tbh. Yeah im not surprised the guy doesn’t understand boundaries / consent. If you want to hate me through how I speak and carry myself- fair game. However, if you’re going to always complain about harassment in twitter and cause harassment on me getting physically harmed it makes 0 sense. Anyway Imma continue my japan trip ✌️