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Jun 8
Very low stomach signifiers of long term partnership. He can provide but what’s his character. She can cook but what’s her character. Are you people friends? It’s not everyday food and bills 🫩
Most Nigerian women are socialized to cook for their partners. Most Nigerian men are socialized to provide for their partners. These low-hanging metrics are poor predictors of what actually makes a great partner. They don’t tell you much about character, values, or emotional maturity. It’s no surprise that many married people are among the unhappiest people you’ll ever meet. They fixated on qualities that are valuable but insufficient to sustain a healthy relationship. We should want more for ourselves.
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Jun 2
Money is relatively easy compared to CHARACTER. Character and Wisdom is much harder its what a whole King in the bible asked for.
I ask again: why do Black male celebrities become successful and, instead of starting families with lawyers, scientists, bankers, accountants, etc., they would rather do this with prostitutes? What is the allure that I'm missing?
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May 23
Love this! And for any one trying to gaslight you I will help you predict how they will do it. They will tell you human intelligence is “undefined” amorphous thing and so because it’s undefined you can appropriate LLMs to it. That’s it, that will be their argument. Now you know.
May 23
I’ve been trying to find good analogies for this. The argument seems to be: “AI is intelligent because it does intelligent-like things, therefore it is cope to say it’s not intelligent.” Some analogies: - “The moon is really bright. Therefore it is capable of luminance.” Here of course we expose a manner of speaking. The moon reflects the sun’s light. The models reflect our own intelligence. The moon will never be a star. - “A snail on the bed of a tow truck is really fast. Look, it’s moving from A to B at 60mph, it’s clearly fast.” But of course the snail is borrowing the truck’s velocity. Notice how there is no controversy in calling the technology large language models because the term is perfectly apt: a map of language. This points to language as constructed by humans as the true source of magic, and LLMs being algorithms that can traverse this map at light speeds. Before you think I’m being pedantic, understand that the nature of the words we use is precisely what’s at stake. That the moon *looks* bright is incontrovertible. Insisting however that the moon itself has any concept of inherent luminance is when you start to gaslight people into deranged realities that they will not stand for. Attempting to appropriate ageless conceptions like consciousness and intelligence to corporate technology by playing axiomatic word games is insanity. Large language models do what they do and this is non-controversial. Personifying it with human-like attributes however is totally uncalled for, when it is easy enough for us to define new words that better capture the phenomenon. I’ve been thinking long and hard about this and I think a good phrase for these technologies can be—hear me out: “large language models”
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May 23
This is NOTHING NEW. If you've been paying attention, framing things as amorphous or undefined in order to expand its tent has been the move. Its really hard to be surprised
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May 18
It also means sane people paired off fast. Do with that information what you will.
Unpopular opinion: this generation is the easiest time to get married. You don't need to do any "secret research," it's very easy to know who's sane and who isn't.
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May 16
I don’t even mind hating but like put some oomf into it not slop hating
gunna is better singer and rapper than drake.
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May 15
Something for everyone so grab a plate!
So Maid of Honour is like the songs about women, Habibti is the party stuff and Iceman is where the bars reside?
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May 15
Someone who gets it. Get on the bus!
Toronto feeling like supporting the Raptors back in 2019 rn
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Tolu retweeted
Toronto feeling like supporting the Raptors back in 2019 rn
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May 15
We gon have conversations on the order to listen in and that’ll keep this album going. Yall not seeing the vision. New discoveries. I love maximalist artists.
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May 15
Counter point he’s a maximalist artist in a time of doing to little he give us all. Maybe I just rate him too much
May 15
okay now don’t get mad, but Drake releasing 3 albums is exactly his problem. he’s always doing too much, doesn’t let his music breathe, he doesn’t let his audience sit, it’s gluttony — he feeds them too much — it’s always excess with him
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May 13
I could not absolutely care less like on Tims?????
I honestly don't doubt that Dunkin is higher quality but Tim Hortons will just start running a "We are canadian" marketing campaign and kill this on the spot
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Your parents have been married for close to 30 years. You don’t see them as role models for marriage, but two social media couples who got married and divorced in less than two years are making you scared to get married. You see that you don’t have sense.
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Apr 26
The only natural conclusion from the overconsumption of negative stories
I hate how traumatized everyone is from dating. it's actually sad.
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Apr 26
The issue is never money, it’s character. Seek character that’s what goes the distance.
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Apr 25
There’s a secret third answer
Laying off junior developers to replace them with AI is a short-term cost decision with a long-term talent pipeline problem. In five years, where are the senior engineers coming from. That is the question nobody is asking out loud.
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Apr 24
Dating apps are largely a societal aberration and should have stayed at the fringes of society where they belonged
This is a large reason dating apps fail Human attraction (specifically for women) requires repeat exposure with low stakes Dating apps do the opposite: meet once, on romantic terms, and decide immediately if it ever happens again
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It isn't just a narrative. It's the mission statement. AI companies have defined "AGI" as AI that can replace rather than augment workers. And their corporate missions are to create "AGI". The notion of human obsolescence is baked into the corporate mission.
Apr 13
the doomer narrative from ai labs will go down as a big fumble i don't know what the plan was by pitching that everyone will lose their job did they really expect people to root for them
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Apr 8
We’re getting there…
Apr 7
I fully believe that a big part of why a lot of Nigerian men are so big on being cooked for is that many of us weren’t raised with affectionate parents and food is the one way many of our mothers showed affection.
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