I learnt this from my uncle.
He and his ex fiancé had issues. He went to her family house to plead with her.
Her parents were present, he went there with just his friend. Another heated argument started as they both narrated their sides of the story.
My uncle kept quiet because he was in the midst of his to-be in-laws. The girl continued running her mouth until she pointed a finger to my uncle and said, "eleyii naa."
That statement changed everything.
My uncle said, he stood up, thanked his ex parents, and told his friend to meet him in the car. He left.
Later, everyone pleaded with him later to forgive the girl. The girl too pleaded. They got back together, but he told the girl he'll never marry her.
She thought he would change his mind, so she got pregnant. He took care of the pregnancy and accepted the child. But he never married her.
Years later, he married someone else.
What women don't know is that Men hate disrespect more than they love sex.